Finding the Shalom of Jesus on the Path to Forgiveness

Unforgiveness is a silent and deadly cancer lurking in the hearts of many people both inside and outside the church. In this practical and theologically rich work, Yana Conner shows us how to pull bitterness up by its roots. Forgiveness is at the very center of Christianity. But, ironically, very few of us can articulate what it is—or how to actually forgive. This book grounds our forgiveness in the grace of Jesus and gives an incredibly practical roadmap for this difficult but life-giving journey.

Yana Conner has blessed us with so much more than familiar language on forgiveness. Instead, she's given us a roadmap, a travel companion in herself, and sweet hope wrapped in the light of the gospel to help us see a beautiful life beyond offense. If you've tried to forgive but still feel stuck by offense, I implore you to read Living Beyond Offense. Yana's writing is approachable, empathic, and laced with what we need most—the words of Scripture to reorient us to Jesus's kingdom culture and the way of shalom.

Yana goes straight to the heart of one of the core causes of ruptured relationships: offense. She approaches the topic with a rare blend of biblical depth, compassionate challenge, and tender kindness. She doesn't shy away from the truth or from the gentle care so many of us need as we navigate the painful realities of deep relationships. This book is an essential guide for anyone longing to build healthy relationships with others without sacrificing their own well-being. Yana asks and answers the questions we all wrestle with as we navigate hardship in relationships. Living Beyond Offense offers both wisdom and warmth to those committed to healing and cultivating meaningful connection within community. Many will be blessed by this powerful and timely work.

This book holds ancient truths for our current times and beyond that need our attention. Truths about forgiveness, mercy, healing, and love that are at the center of the gospel message many of us have forgotten. This book is for anyone who has been harmed—which is all of us—and who wants to live in a more Christlike way despite his or her wounds. It's for the person who wants to really be free and is bold enough to acknowledge freedom can't exist without forgiveness.

If you're looking for clarity on forgiveness, including its scope and the distinctions between sinful offenses and personal preferences while learning to navigate relationship challenges with love and resilience, then Living Beyond Offense is the perfect resource for you. Yana engages her audience with wisdom, grace, competence, and compassion. Living Beyond Offense is ideal for anyone struggling with forgiveness while striving to obey God's command to love Him and others as oneself.

In a culture that exalts autonomy and avoids discomfort, forgiveness can feel not only countercultural—but impossible. Yet it is precisely in this tension that the witness of Christ-followers is most powerful. In Living Beyond Offense, Yana Jenay Conner offers a theologically rich, pastorally sensitive, and deeply practical guide to one of the most misunderstood commands of Jesus. With rare clarity and courage, she confronts the complexities of abuse, toxic relationships, and the selective obedience often disguised as discernment. Rooted in Scripture and shaped by compassion, this book is a gift of discipleship for anyone ready to follow Jesus into the costly freedom of forgiveness.

Yana's words in Living Beyond Offense are timely and transformational. Not many books can bring me to tears, challenge and convict me, and leave me feeling hopeful all at the same time, but this book has done it. Her explanation of what it means to 'turn the other cheek' and how to forgive when you can't forget will sit with me for a long time. Living Beyond Offense is a masterful work that is theologically robust yet also practical. This book is one of the best teachings I have ever heard on forgiveness and is a must read.

What Yana Conner has accomplished with her work in Living Beyond Offense is nothing short of brilliant, timely, and refreshing. Yana captures both the heart and the hope of biblical forgiveness. This book offers a comprehensive understanding of the truth of forgiveness while navigating the challenges we all have with forgiveness. While Yana's authentic transparency makes the book accessible, her biblical clarity makes the subject of forgiveness approachable. Healing, hope, and help are found in every chapter!